What do i do with him?

Alright. I have been beating myself up over this for the past couple months because I dont know what to do. Earlier this year, I met a guy through a friend and we started talking and eventually dated. Everything was perfect and we used to joke about how stupid it was for other couples to fight all the time over the stupidest things (we never fought). Until about 2 months into our relationship. We fought about anything and everything. I discovered a whole new side to him. He is jealous and needy. He was also a complete jerk to me. Soo I would get mad and be a complete jerk back. Finally I broke up with him. He cried for 5 days straight. He loves me so much and I know he does which is why he is like this. We are still broken up and its been about 2 months. But we talk and hang out and kiss and do everything the same as when we were dating. I love him and I care about him more than anything and yet I dont want to be with him cuz I am sick of all the bitching and complaining he does to me every night about how i am not making him happy enough and that I need to start doing stuff for him. Today I told him I just wanted to be friends. But I still love him and i know he still wants to be with me. Gahhh...i just don't know what to do. I need some enlightenment pleasee?? =]